Hearing my life

Filling in the missing pieces of information of life.

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  • May 17

  You don’t need a boy to be happy and feel pretty.

  I know society and movies and media and all that stuff tells you that single girls are supposed to be unhappy but it’s NOT TRUE. 

  You should feel beautiful for yourself, not a guy. Please understand that while guys can be an important part in your life they are not everything, and life is full of so many other amazing things to feel happy about like friends, family, hobbies, careers/school. A guy should not turn into your whole life.

  I’ve seen way too many girls jumping from guy to guy (even me) just to not be single, even if they are setting for guys that aren’t good for them. Don’t sell yourself short like that, you deserve what you really want, even if it takes longer to find than those around you. 

  Try dressing nice for yourself, even if you aren’t going to go anywhere. Give yourself that confidence boost you deserve, and whatever you do, never doubt your worth just because a guy didn’t appreciate it. 

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  • #confidence
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  • #dressing nice
  • #self worth
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  • Aug 27

  It’s hard to resist the temptation of loving someone for the sake of being with someone, so I think you are really brave to wait for the right one to come along. 

  (Source: biteyourtonguexxx.xanga.com)

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  • #loving
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• • Feb 14

  Also, let people be mushy on Valentine’s Day

  I know it’s hard to be single on this day, I myself have been many times. But  once you find that person you’ll appreciate what you have and want to share it with the world. Be upset, be frustrated, go and get the stress out, but let those who are celebrating this day do it happily. There is someone out there, and while it is hard right now, the day eventually passes. Do someone for yourself on this day. Pamper yourself, practice a hobby, learn something new, and relax. The day will eventually be over, so try to spend it as comfortable as possible. 
     It will be hard to see those cute statuses, or see the photos of amazing gifts, but eventually those days will be yours as well, just take things one at a time. Take the love you see around you and get that inspiration for future lovers. For now just be patient. 

  • #valentine's day
  • #patience
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  • #taken
  • #life
  • #pampering
  • #appreciation
  • #relationships
  • #future
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About

I'm about to graduate with my BS in Psychology and then I'm headed off to grad school. I do have fibromyalgia, a chronic pain and nerve disorder, so I relate to invisible illnesses. I love learning new things, fandoms, and quotes. I'm here if anyone needs to talk, and I never stop looking for the positive in life.