This quote shares a very smart point. Anyone can apologize and say they will change, anyone. I’m sure everyone has said I’m sorry to someone without really regretting what they did at all. It’s frustrating as a bystander to watch soooo many girls get back with their cheating exes within days or weeks. I’m sure they are “great” but by getting back with them so fast you aren’t giving them consequences!
All it is teaching the guy (or girl in cases) is that they can do one of the worst things to do and you’ll take them back by you saying you’ll change. People, stand up for yourself, tell them you’re not happy with them and ignore them for a week or two. Let them miss you! It will be harder, but it’s going to be harder when they do something else bad because they know you’ll end up forgiving them.